References

Abrar S, Lovenduski J, Margetts H. Feminist ideas and domestic violence policy change. Polit Stud (Oxf). 2000; 48:(2)239-262 https://doi.org/10.1111/1467-9248.00258

Bagshaw D. Domestic violence: feminist perspective. The encyclopedia of peace psychology. 2011; https://doi.org/10.1002/9780470672532.wbepp091

Barber C. Domestic violence against men. Nursing Standard. 2008; 22:(51)35-39 https://doi.org/10.7748/ns2008.08.22.51.35.c6644

Which shops are offering safe spaces to victims of domestic abuse?. 2020. https://tinyurl.com/88tmv2ak (accessed 24 November 2022)

BBC News Online. Male domestic abuse victims ‘sleeping in cars and tents’. 2020. https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-england-54237409 (accessed 24 November 2022)

Bradbury-Jones C. Domestic violence and nursing: multiple perspectives to tackle a complex problem. Journal of Research in Nursing. 2016; 21:(5-6)342-344 https://doi.org/10.1177/1744987116654999

Bradbury-Jones C, Broadhurst K. Are we failing to prepare nursing and midwifery students to deal with domestic abuse? Findings from a qualitative study. J Adv Nurs. 2015; 71:(9)2062-2072 https://doi.org/10.1111/jan.12666

Is domestic violence against men a feminist issue? Is domestic violence against men a feminist issue?. 2016. https://tinyurl.com/422cvzud (accessed 1 December 2022)

Hidden male victims of domestic abuse. 2011. https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-12126783 (accessed 1 December 2022)

Domestic Abuse Commissioner. Our support for male victims. 2021. https://tinyurl.com/m3ed8pkn (accessed 24 November 2022)

End the Fear. Same-sex domestic abuse. 2022. https://www.endthefear.co.uk/same-sex-domestic-abuse (accessed 24 November 2022)

Differentiating between domestic violence and abuse. Differentiating between domestic violence and abuse. 2022. https://tinyurl.com/2s39f3rt (accessed 1 December 2022)

Men's domestic violence group: Everything you need to know. 2022. https://mensgroup.com/male-victims-of-domestic-abuse (accessed 1 December 2022)

Retired academic ‘gaslighted’ by wife who destroyed his books and hit him with stick. 2021. https://tinyurl.com/5n6skez6 (accessed 1 December 2022)

Barriers faced by lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender people in accessing domestic abuse, stalking, harassment and sexual violence services. 2014. https://tinyurl.com/3p8zufke (accessed 1 December 2022)

Hester M, Donovan C. Researching domestic violence in same-sex relationships – a feminist epistemological approach to survey development. Journal of Lesbian Studies. 2009; 13:(2)161-173 https://doi.org/10.1080/10894160802695346

Home Office. Ask for ANI domestic abuse codeword: information for pharmacies. Find out how to sign up to the Ask for ANI codeword scheme if you are a UK pharmacy, and where to record disclosures. 2022. https://bit.ly/3p9kHLW (accessed 24 November 2022)

Horwitz R. Politics as victimhood, victimhood as politics. Journal of Policy History. 2018; 30:552-574 https://doi.org/10.1017/S0898030618000209

ITV News Online. Male victims of domestic abuse urges other men ‘to speak up’ too. 2021. https://tinyurl.com/5afaj28v (accessed 1 December 2022)

Khalida N, Sholpan Z, Bauyrzhan B, Ainash B. Language and gender in political discourse (mass media interviews). Procedia - Social and Behavioral Science. 2013; 70:417-422 https://doi.org/10.1016/j.sbspro.2013.01.079

A hidden form of domestic abuse. 2019. https://tinyurl.com/y38vt8nn (accessed 1 December 2022)

Lawrence S. Domestic violence and men. Nurs Stand. 2003; 17:(40)41-43 https://doi.org/10.7748/ns2003.06.17.40.41.c3408

Local Government Association. Adult safeguarding and domestic abuse. A guide to support practitioners and managers. 2015. https://tinyurl.com/2s37fufu (accessed 1 December 2022)

Lupri E. Why does family violence occur?. In: Tepperman L, Curtis J (eds). Toronto, Canada: McGraw-Hill Ryerson; 1992

Mankind Initiative. Emergency housing. 2022a. https://tinyurl.com/2p87nfad (accessed 1 December 2022)

Mankind Initiative. Research on male victims of domestic abuse. 2022b. https://tinyurl.com/yc6cvnhc (accessed 24 November 2022)

Medway NHS Foundation Trust. Standard operating procedure. 2017. https://tinyurl.com/2p9d8uun (accessed 1 December 2022)

Merrill G, Wolfe V. Battered gay men. An exploration of abuse, help seeking, and why they stay. Journal of Homosexuality. 2000; 39:(2)1-30 https://doi.org/10.1300/J082v39n02_01

Disability and domestic abuse. 2018. https://tinyurl.com/ymbuxmfm (accessed 24 November 2022)

National Institute for Health and Care Excellence. 11 Gaps in the evidence. 2014. https://www.nice.org.uk/guidance/ph50/chapter/11-gaps-in-the-evidence (accessed 30 November 2022)

National Institute for Health and Care Excellence. A public health prevention approach to domestic abuse: the ‘Be a lover not a fighter’ campaign in Cheshire and Merseyside. 2016. https://tinyurl.com/3xym3wzv (accessed 30 November 2022)

National Institute for Health and Care Excellence. Patient experience in adult NHS services: improving the experience of care for people using adult NHS services. Clinical guideline CG138. 2021. https://www.nice.org.uk/guidance/cg138 (accessed 1 December 2022)

Nussbaum M. From disgust to humanity.Oxford: Oxford University Press; 2010

Office for National Statistics. Domestic abuse and the criminal justice system, England and Wales. 2019. https://tinyurl.com/4fjmpvpz (accessed 1 December 2022)

Office for National Statistics. Domestic abuse in England and Wales overview: November 2020. 2020a. https://tinyurl.com/yc49j59a (accessed 1 December 2022)

Office for National Statistics. Domestic abuse victim services, England and Wales: November 2020. 2020b. https://tinyurl.com/229vnkfp (accessed 1 December 2022)

Dictionary of Law.Oxford: OUP; 2018

Partington A. The Lingustics of political argument.Abington: Routledge; 2003

Perryman SM, Appleton J. Male victims of domestic abuse: implications for health visiting practice. Journal of Research in Nursing. 2016; 21:(5-6)386-414 https://doi.org/10.1177/1744987116653785

Public Health England. Disability and domestic abuse. Risks, impacts and responses. 2015. https://tinyurl.com/3ychujm9 (accessed 24 November 2022)

Public Health England. Making Every Contact Count (MECC): practical resources. 2020. https://tinyurl.com/4htpsur8 (accessed 1 December 2022)

Male victims of domestic abuse ‘suffering in silence’. 2019. https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-wales-47252756 (accessed 1 December 2022)

Relate. What is gaslighting?. 2021. https://www.relate.org.uk/get-help/gaslighting (accessed 24 November 2022)

Respect. Toolkit for work with male victims of domestic abuse. 2019. https://tinyurl.com/2mp7c2n6 (accessed 24 November 2022)

Respect. Emergency accommodation for London's male victims fleeing domestic abuse. 2020. https://tinyurl.com/ykukrpbu (accessed 24 November 2022)

Royal College of Nursing. Guidance for nurses and midwives to support those affected by domestic abuse. 2020a. https://tinyurl.com/5n99d9e9 (accessed 24 November 2022)

Royal College of Nursing. Domestic abuse position statement. 2020b. https://tinyurl.com/ynu6j4kv (accessed 24 November 2022)

Safe Lives. Men and boys' experiences of domestic abuse. 2019. https://safelives.org.uk/node/1657 (accessed 1 December 2022)

Safe Lives. Transgender victims' and survivors' experiences of domestic abuse. 2021. https://safelives.org.uk/transgender-experiences-of-DA (accessed 1 December 2022)

Sheffield DACT [Sheffield Drug and Alcohol/Domestic Abuse Co-ordination Team]. Domestic abuse – asking the question. 2016. https://tinyurl.com/mr24tenj (accessed 24 November 2022)

Single Parent Action Network. From victim to survivor to thriver. 2022. https://tinyurl.com/bde42vs2 (accessed 24 November 2022)

Social Care Institute for Excellence. Safeguarding adults. Types and indicators of abuse. 2020. https://tinyurl.com/5758cvun (accessed 1 December 2022)

Taylor C. The politics of recognition. In: Heble A, Pennee DP, Struther JR (eds). Peterborough (ON), Canada: Broadview Press; 1997

UK Says No More. Ask for ANI. 2022a. https://uksaysnomore.org/get-involved/ask-for-ani (accessed 24 November 2022)

UK Says No More. Safe space locations. Safe spaces locations. 2022b. https://uksaysnomore.org/safespaces (accessed 24 November 2022)

Safe Lives blog. Disability and domestic violence. 2016. https://tinyurl.com/wetkjhn6 (accessed 1 December 2022)

Vonder Haar Law Offices. Are spousal abuse and domestic violence the same thing?. 2020. https://tinyurl.com/2pbd4974 (accessed 1 December 2022)

Women's Aid. Domestic abuse is a gendered crime. 2022a. https://tinyurl.com/ynfvytzd (accessed 1 December 2022)

Women's Aid. The survivor's handbook. 2022b. https://tinyurl.com/2p894m44 (accessed 1 December 2022)

Women's Aid. What is domestic abuse?. 2022c. https://tinyurl.com/wcaftn93 (accessed 1 December 2022)

The absent voice of male domestic abuse victims: the marginalisation of men in a system originally designed for women. 2016. https://pearl.plymouth.ac.uk/handle/10026.1/9037 (accessed 24 November 2022)

Providing the right support and care for male victims of domestic abuse

12 January 2023
Volume 32 · Issue 1

Abstract

This article seeks to update and expand on earlier work published by the author on the subject of domestic violence against men almost 15 years ago. Since 2008, the language associated with domestic abuse has moved on, with most documents such as the newly enacted Domestic Abuse Act 2021 using either gender-neutral or gender-inclusive pronouns. However, men who experience domestic abuse continue to feel stigmatised and ignored by a discourse and framework that are still largely female oriented and driven. The article proposes approaches that the nurse can use to support men who experience domestic abuse.

In the 14 years since the author first published an article on domestic violence against men (Barber, 2008), there have been changes in the definitions and meaning of domestic abuse and violence, as well as in the experiences of those affected, and in the availability of support and resources. The changes mean that the issue is now also considered from the perspective of male victims, with greater awareness and understanding of men's experiences (Varney, 2016; Safe Lives, 2019; Respect, 2019).

This article seeks to update, discuss and explore the issues related to male victims and survivors of domestic abuse in the context of the earlier work (Barber, 2008).

Domestic abuse and violence can be a contentious issue, partly due to the occupation of ‘gendered spaces' of the phenomenon and related issues (Khalida et al, 2013; Chelliah, 2016). Further issues that make the subject contentious include a lack of consensus on what constitutes domestic abuse and violence, the lack of appropriate support structures for victims, and the historical stigma often associated with the experiences of those affected, which can be both common to and different for all genders (National Institute for Health and Care Excellence (NICE), 2014). Although much has been written about domestic violence and abuse, this has generally been from the standpoint of the female as the victim and survivor, with the male taken to be the perpetrator and aggressor (Women's Aid, 2022a). The scope of this article is to focus on the experience of men who are victims and survivors, rather than perpetrators.

Register now to continue reading

Thank you for visiting British Journal of Nursing and reading some of our peer-reviewed resources for nurses. To read more, please register today. You’ll enjoy the following great benefits:

What's included

  • Limited access to clinical or professional articles

  • Unlimited access to the latest news, blogs and video content